Wednesday, December 17, 2003
HAPPI BIRTHDAE CLARENCE!!!
stalin rules
10:28 PM
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Comrade Generals...
Its been a long time i blogged again....probably too angry over the fact that my blog is unpatronized...i mean, what the hell, nvm larx...aniwae...
HAPPY BIRTHDAE LILIAN!!!
yupx...promised her to write an entry for her yupx...so before is start, lilian, this is dedicated for u , a dm that continues to strive for the band, asking for no recognition and praising, quietly goes the extra mile for the band.......
After this two months of holidae, i feel that the topic in my mind has been the word frenship, especially about adam, yup But becos of this, it has made me think and realised more about this word i feel is sacred. i have many friends, but only a few close ones, Close friends are those whom together we pour our saddness,happiness,joys,sorrows to each other and we woulnd't mind. Close friends are those whom understands u, ur actions and ur moves.Close friends are the few intimate ones that u give trust and belief in. This is what i call true friendship. Though we claim for example, our classmates,chatmatex,studymates and stuff as friends, but, this is rarely true. Because u don understand them,u dun read their minds, they may even give u a reply for the sake of replying,they may even backstabb u, get what they want,sometimes even onli entertainment, and throw u aside. this comrades, is not friendship, i would sae that it is onli a bit more than strangers.
As the previous quote i stated...
Be courteous to all, but intimate with few, and let those few be well tried before you give them your confidence. True friendship is a plant of slow grow, and must undergo and withstand the shocks of adversity before it is entitled to the appellation."
-George Washington
This is very true and should be realised by all, true friendship does not come upon the second u meet them and interact with them, true friendship comes only when both interact truely and openly and with belief and compromise with each other, indeed it is ike ani other organism, it grows with proper nutrition, it fails without proper care. It is as fragile as ani glass bits lying around, but if fostered properly, it can be bonded as strong as the bonds within a diamond.What's more,given the polishing of time, it may even sparkle, not all diamonds are shiny, but all diamonds can be shiny. Friendship therefore, is a very sacred treasure. After all incidents that has happened this month, it is clearer that amongst the people around me, who are the people that are truely my friends, and who are those that are mere stangers. I also have a clearer view of cherishing a friendship, as it may come to an abrupt end. I am proud to say that, i know who are the few true friends of mine, they always receive that extra thought of me, whatever i do, whenever the time.
U may think that true friendship is when both of u interact a lot, talk and chat alot, go out together oftenly, but it is not,it is when both minds are connected and constantly interacting, like those of telepathy communication. Therefore, even the friendship may be stale, uncolorful on the outside, but it is contsnatly growing inside, friendship can be quiet one, even if it is quiet, as it grows, it soon become colorful, not onli on the inside but also on the appearance. This is the beauty of true friendship.
The most beautiful discovery true friends make is that they can grow separately without growing apart.
This is another quote, probably a present to Adam especially, to those like lilian and ann, though i haben ever seen u...
Frienship is indeed a complicating thing, it involes scams, bacstabs,talking-behind-ur-back and even more worse actions. But, True Friendship is rather simple, just belief and trust, easy to understand, but hard to achieve.Even u and i have not been fully enlightened on this sacred word.
Davaat...i shall end here
I serve the Soviet Union
Comrade bErNs*
stalin rules
1:05 PM
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